Accept Your Part Now And Get Back With Your Ex
On December 03, 2009 in Health
When I was 20, my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. It crushed me. I felt like a shell of a man. I had no appetite, I was plagued by insomnia, and all I could conceive of was how to get my ex girlfriend back.
At the time, I had no strategy for how to get over a breakup. It was impossible for me to admit that any part of the breakup had been my responsibility, and by condemning my ex for everything, I ruined any chance of winning her back.
Take this opportunity to learn from my error. Repairing your relationship with your ex starts with you assuming responsibility for the role you played in the breakup. Buck up and acknowledge where you screwed up, and take the steps necessary to show your ex that you deserve her. If that sounds like too much work, the relationship apparently isn’t as important to you as you’re pretending it is.